Update on the im turnin 16 ?

ok, well i just told my ma a little something about it. i said if my dad would might let me go over his sister's house for the party, and she said no cuz he would get sad or feel bad. my room isnt big enough for 5 girls so, i might ask my grandpa for some hotel money, but then a shaperone would have to be there, and that's too much money. so now wat? i would have gift bags($35 for all). wat bout a sleep ova at my house-in livin room...in there its no room to lay...help please!!!:(